Book Helps Parents Help Their Children Get to Sleep

I remember lots of bleary days following sleepless nights when my children were very young. If only I had been able to read Malia Jacobson’s book called Ready, Set, Sleep: 50 Ways to Help Your Child Sleep, So You Can Sleep Too. As a sleep journalist, Jacobson has writtReady, Set, Sleep cover imageen extensively on this topic, and her tips are easy to read and implement. They are also gentle to both parents and children. To find out more, you may want to read this interview with Jacobson at Christina Katz’s website. Then head over to Malia Jacobson.com for complete info on the author and her very helpful guide.

 

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Book Review: Daughter of Xanadu by Dori Jones Yang

Daughter of Xanadu cover imageEmmajin chafes at the restrictions that would keep her from joining the army. Her grandfather is the Great Khan Khubilai, and she would like nothing more than to please him with her skills at archery. Instead of spending time with her mother and sister, Emmajin practices with her cousin Surin, the oldest male grandchild of the Great Khan and his expected successor one day.

Emmajin’s normal way of life changes, but not in ways she expects. First, she meets a foreigner who brings gifts to her grandfather from a land far away. His name is Marco Polo, a merchant accompanying his father and uncle from Venice. The Great Khan wants her to spend time with him and gain his confidence, so she can learn more about the place he is from and how the Mongols may conquer it. Then Emmajin is accepted into the army and sent on a campaign to the far reaches of the empire. Suddenly Emmajin questions everything she believes she knows about herself and her people, as she finds herself becoming more and more interested in the round-eyed foreigner.

Daughter of Xanadu by Dori Jones Yang is a sweeping tale of adventure and romance that fascinates with its descriptions of life in the Mongol court of the Great Khan. Emmajin is a brave character who is not afraid to go after what she wants or change her mind once she sees her dream is not what she thought it was. Through her eyes we see the magnificence of the Khan’s empire, and we also see a hunger to know more about the lands beyond it. She knows her interest in Marco Polo is forbidden; yet she is determined to find a way for the two of them to be together. While Emmajin herself is a fictional character, many of the people and events around her are not, and the events make for great historical reading.

The publisher provided me with a copy of this book to review.

Great Meeting Ideas for Your Mother-Daughter Book Club

Thanks to reader Amber A. for writing in about successful activities in her mother-daughter book club. Talking about the book and socializing are always a big part of book club meetings, but other activities can add a whole new level of fun. Here are the books Amber’s group read and the creative ideas they came up with for their meetings:

Half Magic by Edward Eager
Each girl put on a magic show for the group. You can find easy magic tricks on the web. Then, I taught them to play a card game, Doubt It.  They had a lot of fun with this and got a little rowdy. Best to do at the very end. For snacks we had Celery Soda (you can find this on the web) and Hot Fudge Dope (ice cream sundae).

Soul Surfer by Bethany Hamilton
I ordered some shark teeth on the Internet that was set for making a necklace. After our discussion, we all made necklaces. I also had a replica (got from the same place) of an adult shark tooth. We live in Huntington Beach, California, so I was going to take a field trip to the surfing museum in town. Bethany Hamilton also has a website with a recipe for a specific smoothie. I also thought about having the girls make that. However, we ended up just going with the necklaces.

Freaky Friday by Mary Rodgers
A version of the Newlywed Game, where the mother and daughter answer questions about each other.
An obstacle course, where the mom is blind folded and the daughter must give the mom directions but cannot touch her. We just used our yard and put chairs and tables in the way so the mom had to maneuver around them. Then we switched—mother directed the daughter.

Book Review: Tyger Tyger by Kersten Hamilton

Tyger Tyger cover imageTeagan Wylltson descends from a line of Irish travelers, wanderers who rarely stay in one place for long. Her parents have raised Teagan and her brother in one place, so she’s never met anyone else in her extended family. Then one day her cousin Finn comes to live with the Wylltsons.

Finn’s been on his own and homeless for some time. He claims to be the Mac Cumhaill, the one who fights evil, and he says he sees dark creatures like goblins, shape-shifters and cat-sidhe. Teagan doesn’t believe him until she starts to see them too. Then her mother dies suddenly and her dad is taken by the goblins. Teagan sets off on a journey into the goblin world to bring her dad home. She’ll need all her skills and Finn’s knowledge of fighting dark creatures to achieve her goal.

Tyger Tyger by Kersten Hamilton creates a world inhabited by dark creatures that co-exists just on the other side of our own reality. These creatures are ancient, just like the tales the Irish travelers tell of them; many of them have no love for humans. The ancient Celtic tales of how these creatures came into being are interesting to read and would be fun to talk about. The story ends with just enough mystery to leave you anxiously waiting for the next book in the series.

The author provided me with a copy of this book for review.

 

Book Review: The Prince of Mist by Carlos Ruiz Zafon

The Prince of Mist cover imageCarlos Ruiz Zafon is the master of writing great tales with dark undertones, and The Prince of Mist hits the mark as a gothic tale for young adults. To escape the ravages of war in their country, Max’s family moves to a home at the seaside, not realizing it comes with a past. Years before, the previous owners’ son drowned within sight of the home, and it has lain vacant ever since.

In addition to the past tragedy, Max can feel that something evil resides nearby, and he begins to dream about the garden behind the home, where creepy statues of circus performers reside. Max notices that the statues have moved to different positions each time he goes there.

But there are things for Max to like in his new surroundings too, including his new friend Roland, who teaches Max to dive to a nearby shipwreck in search of treasure. When Max’s sister, Alicia, strikes up a relationship with Roland, the three become inseparable. Then they discover the rest of the story about the drowned boy and the prince of mist.

It turns out Roland’s grandfather, the local lighthouse keeper, has been keeping vigil over the area to keep the prince of mist from coming back to claim another life, one the prince feels is rightfully his. They all work together to uncover the mystery at the prince’s core, before he comes back to strike again.

While the story leaves more questions asked than answered at the end, The Prince of Mist is a good introduction to other Zafon works, such as The Shadow of the Wind, The Midnight Palace, and The Angel’s Game.

E-Book Helps Parents of Adopted Tweens

Judy Miller photoAs an educator, Judy Miller has helped scores of parents of adopted children over the years. So it’s welcome news that she has just begun to offer a new e-guide that deals with many of the issues parents can expect to face with their adopted tweens…a guide that helps them address the issues before they arise when possible.

I was fortunate to get a sneak peek at Miller’s book before it came out, and I know it’s chock full of information that’s easy to understand and apply. Here’s where you can find out more information about Judy and her helpful new guide: judymmiller.com/the-book

Book Review: Sass & Serendipity by Jennifer Ziegler

Sass and Serendipity cover imageGabby is 17 years old and has her feet firmly planted on the ground. She holds no illusions about the imperfections of those around her, and she’s determined not to make the same mistakes her mother has by letting romance get in the way of what she wants to accomplish. Gabby’s 15-year-old sister Daphne is just the opposite. She sees the world through rose-tinted glasses, and she’s sure that the way to find true romance is to expect it.

Each girl is confident that her approach to life is the best, and her sister is wrong. The situation is ripe enough for conflict, but when you throw in recently divorced parents, a loyal best friend who may be interested in more than friendship, the family’s struggling financial situation and more, Gabby and Daphne want to declare war on each other.

Sass and Serendipity by Jennifer Ziegler explores the family dynamic through sisters with two very different personalities. Gabby and Daphne not only have different views of the same events, they also choose different ways of coping with these events. Like Jane Austen’s Sense and Sensibility, Sass and Serendipity explores the relationship between sisters and other family members, the pitfalls of making snap judgments without knowing more than one view of a story, and the drawbacks to being rigid in whatever outlook you tend to favor. Mother-daughter book clubs with girls aged 14 and up will find lots to discuss.

To learn more, check out the interview where Ziegler talks about her writing life, her characters, and the challenges of adapting a Jane Austen story for modern times. You may also want to know about out a giveaway Ziegler is featuring on her website. Here are the details:

To learn more about Jennifer, visit her website: http://www.jenniferziegler.net/index.html or blog: http://www.jenniferziegler.net/blog/.

The author provided me with a copy of this book to review.

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Interview with Jennifer Ziegler, Author of Sass and Serendipity

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Jennifer Ziegler

You can count me among the legion of Jane Austen fans. That’s why I was so intrigued to find out about a new book by Jennifer Ziegler called Sass & Serendipity, that’s somewhat based on Austen’s Sense and Sensibility. Tomorrow I’ll be posting my review of the book (hint: I like it!), and today I’m featuring an interview with Ziegler. Read on to find out about her writing life, books she liked to read when she was growing up, the challenges of re-imagining a classic, and more.

To learn more about Jennifer, visit her website: http://www.jenniferziegler.net/index.html or blog: http://www.jenniferziegler.net/blog/. Now on to the interview.

How did you decide to become a writer?

JZ: I grew up in a family of storytellers, so I learned narrative form even as I learned to talk. I shared a room with my younger sister and would make up stories at night, when we were supposed to be sleeping, to see if I could make her laugh. At some point I had an epiphany that there were people who did that sort of thing as a job. That blew my mind–the notion that making up silly stories could translate into a career! From then on it was my deepest desire.

What do you like best about being a writer?

JZ: Writing combines all of my skills and interests. It’s a job where daydreaming counts as research and pajamas can be work wear. Where being perpetually sixteen might be regarded as a preferred qualification. Where you seclude yourself for long stretches at a time, but it never feels lonely because you interact with made-up people.

However, the best part would be the connections I make. Meeting fellow book lovers and discussing stories that enrich our lives. And when someone lists one of my novels among them? Well, that’s just beyond amazing.

What is you least favorite part of writing?

JZ: Writing takes a lot out of you–especially that super-focused, nurturing type of energy that I use with my children. Thus, sometimes I’m tapped out after a day of writing, and feel that I’ve given my best self to fictional people instead of my real life loved ones. I can’t exactly say that I hate this part of writing, but it is the part I struggle with the most.

What were some of the favorite books you read when you were a teen?

JZ: I loved all kinds of books of all different genres, but my favorite authors were Judy Blume, Paula Danziger, Paul Zindel, S.E. Hinton, Richard Peck, Norma Fox Mazer and Harry Mazer. Young adult fiction didn’t have as many offerings back then, so I also read a lot of books by Kurt Vonnegut, Douglas Adams, Erma Bombeck, Steven King, Philip Roth, and John Updike.

Sass and Serendipity is loosely based on Jane Austin’s Sense and Sensibility. Were you an Austen fan when you were growing up?

JZ: I discovered Jane Austen as a teen. In fact, Sense and Sensibility was the first book of hers that I read and I absolutely adored it. I’m ashamed to say that teenage Jennifer stayed away from the classics, assuming (erroneously) that they were dense, boring, and only beloved by English teachers. Jane Austen changed all that. I found her writing to be lively and funny, her characters to be real and relatable, and her depiction of sisterhood to be very much like my own.

How difficult was it for you to re-imagine the story for modern times?

JZ: It had its challenges. I knew it wouldn’t be as simple as just updating the setting. The scope of the novel would have to be streamlined and some plotlines and characters would have to go. Most of all, I knew I shouldn’t even try to imitate Austen’s writing style–not only because it would appear forced and unnatural, but because it had to have me in it. If I didn’t feel ownership, the story would suffer. Thus, the hardest part was figuring out my approach. Once I decided to stay away from the original material and simply work from the themes and plots that had been burned into my memory, I was freed up to both imagine and re-imagine.

Daphne and Gabby couldn’t be more different than each other. Do you believe that a special bond exists between sisters even when they have dramatically different personalities?

JZ: I do believe it’s possible, yes. My sister and I appear to be very different. However, most of that disparity is topical or was played up when we were teens in order to appear distinct from each other. Deep down, we are very much alike. And beyond all the similarities and differences, we can’t help but understand each other so thoroughly simply because we grew up together. There’s a certain security in that.

All the characters in Sass and Serendipity seem to be stuck in the way they perceive the people and circumstances around them. Do you believe that it’s difficult for people in general to change how they perceive their world?

JZ: It just might be the most difficult thing ever. It’s as if we’re all riding on a vast ship, and each of us are peering out from our tiny portholes and assuming that the scene in front of us is the same for everyone else. I don’t think it’s possible to truly see what someone else sees, but we can remind ourselves over and over that no one has the same line of sight–that the assumptions we make about others are based on our limited perspective and could be wrong. Everyone has an incomplete picture, so the best thing we can do is listen and empathize. I also think that reading books, both fiction and non-fiction, opens up the world and presents different viewpoints, thereby widening our own view.

What are some of the key issues you see book clubs being able to address when they discuss your book?

JZ: I think the issue of point of view, as mentioned above, is a big one. Readers are in the heads of both protagonists, so they have the big picture. Meanwhile the characters are making guesses about each other that are often wrong and unfair.

Other discussion points can be the themes of love and friendship, the way the story compares and contrasts with Austen’s book, and the characters of the two sisters. One girl is so reserved it prevents her from truly connecting with others. The other is so open she risks extreme hurt. Which is better? Which approach can they better relate to?

Is there anything you would like to add for readers at Mother Daughter Book Club. com?

JZ: I would just like to thank you for featuring me and to commend you on having such a wonderful site. Book clubs are a fantastic way to exchange ideas on books and, therefore, the world. When mothers and daughters analyze the same book, it can’t help but lead to a greater understanding of each other, too. What a perfect way to bond and grow together.

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