Book Review: If I Have to Tell You One More Time by Amy McCready

If I Have to Telll You One More Time cover imageHow many times have you wished you had a different solution when your kids act up than threatening with a time out or losing your cool and demanding they just do what you say? Situations that pit child against parent may come up multiple times a day, particularly when you have preschoolers testing limits to see how much they can get away with or teens seeking to assert their independence.

Amy McCready, founder of Positive Parenting Solutions, Inc., knows about the day-to-day power struggles that go on in families and she’s got advice that can help the next time you’re faced with a child who refuses to brush her teeth, get off the computer and come to dinner, or put his clothes in a hamper for washing. McCready’s book, If I Have to Tell You One More Time… lays out many scenarios where power struggles may arise and gives suggestions for getting results without yelling, pleading, or overreacting with over-the-top punishments.

The subhead for the book says a lot about what you can find inside: The Revolutionary Program That Gets Your Kids to Listen Without Nagging, Reminding, or Yelling. I would have loved to have this guide when my daughters were younger. Each issue of childhood misbehavior has a Toolbox Solution—there are 23 toolboxes in all—that explains the solution, when to use it, why it works and gives tips for success. The only thing I believe could have made the book more useful is a more descriptive table of contents that outlines the issues and toolboxes in each chapter. That would make it easier to refer back to when needed. Even so, If I Have to Tell You One More Time… is a valuable tool to have on your parenting advice bookshelf.

The publisher provided me with a copy of this book for review in exchange for my honest review.

Book Club Fun: Make Popcorn the Old-Fashioned Way

Sure it’s easy (and delicious) to whip up some microwave popcorn in a few minutes. But you can actually have fun as a book club making popcorn the old-fashioned way. Plus, it’s easy to do. Here’s a simple recipe to try:

Popcorn

Serves 6 to 8

  • 2 tablespoons (divided) high-heat vegetable oil such as peanut or canola
  • 1 teaspoon (divided) salt
  • 1 cup popcorn kernels
  • 2 tablespoons melted butter

The key factor in cooking popcorn is to keep the kernels moving so they pop evenly without burning. Cook the popcorn in a large saucepan with a handle, and cook ½ cup at a time.

Heat 1 tablespoon vegetable oil with ½ teaspoon salt over high heat. Put three or four kernels in the pan and cover. When you hear the kernels pop, you’ll know the oil is ready.

Pour in ½ cup of popcorn kernels, cover again, and begin shaking the pan gently. Continue shaking until several seconds lapse between pops. Remove popcorn from heat, pour in a large bowl and repeat with another batch.

When all the corn is popped, add butter and extra salt if needed. Or try summer different like adding a little sugar to your popcorn or sprinkling on colored sugar chrystals (the kind you use for decorating cookies.)

The idea is to keep it fun as well as tasty.

Book Review: Poopendous by Artie Bennett and Mike Moran

Poopendous cover imageIt’s true: little kids love to talk about poop. Parents can help them channel that attraction, and get them talking and laughing and learning abut poop all at the same time with the help of a new picture book for ages 4 and up called Poopendous. Written by Artie Bennett, who also wrote The Butt Book, Poopendous uses rhyming couplets to help kids learn about a few facts about the stuff that comes out of every animal’s body.

The story takes us on a journey with Professor Pip Poopdeck, who is full of fun facts such as “Poop from critters is called dung, and monkey dung is sometimes flung.” Or, “Camel poop is desert-dry. Wet poop comes from birds on high.” Mike Moran’s colorful illustrations are funny too. Every page features the professor and his two students, a girl and a boy, as they travel the world to find out facts about poop. You see mice and frogs and aardvarks, dogs and hippos and termites all happily getting down to business.

Poopendous is sure to delight kids and the adults who read to them. I highly recommend it.

The author provided me with a copy of this book in exchange for my honest opinion in this review.

 

Book Review: Days of Blood and Starlight by Laini Taylor

Days of Blood and Starlight cover imageIn Daughter of Smoke and Bone, Laini Taylor created a world where angels and creatures are pitted against each other as two star-crossed lovers, Karou and Akiva, strive to bridge the gap and bring peace to their worlds. In the sequel, Days of Blood and Starlight, Taylor once again weaves her magic, ramping up the conflict and making the reader question a world of endless war where both sides suffer tragic losses.

Where the first book held out hope and possibility, much of this one is focused on the brutality that comes when two races set out to destroy one another. Both the seraphim and the chimaera are led by ruthless rulers who would like nothing more than total domination of the world they live in. In this tale, Karou and Akiva are at odds, separated by grief and the belief that they are powerless to really change the minds and hearts of their brethren. Hope for a different outcome is planted as a small seed that begins to grow until each of them feels confident and strong enough to act against the powers that lead them.

Like the first book in the series, Days of Blood and Starlight is fast-paced and breathtaking as it hurtles toward resolution. Taylor excels at the details of the fantasy world she has created, yet the story never gets lost or drags as she paints those details. I am sure I am not the only reader impatiently waiting to read the next installment of Karou and Akiva’s journey.

I recommend the series for mother-daughter book clubs with girls aged 15 and up.

The publisher provided me with a copy of this book for review.

Meatballs (and Meatless) Spaghetti Recipe for Your Book Club

Meatballs and Spaghetti

Serves 6 to 8

Meatballs served in a tomato sauce over spaghetti is an easy dish to serve when it’s your turn to host a book club dinner. This classic recipe works well for both the meat-eaters and the vegetarians in your group. That’s because it’s easy to keep some of the sauce aside before you add the meatballs. And if you’re in a mother-daughter or other kids book club with picky eaters? The kids can easily go for just the pasta with a little butter or olive oil and Parmesan cheese if they prefer it that way.

As a side dish, sauté slices of zucchini in a little olive oil with salt and pepper to taste. Zucchini is actually the Italian name for this vegetable that’s available nearly year round in grocery stores. Carrot sticks are usually a good choice as well.

Sauce

  • 2 tablespoons extra virgin olive oil
  • ½ chopped sweet yellow onion
  • 3 cloves garlic, chopped
  • 1 cup very finely carrots, chopped
  • 2 28-oz cans plum tomatoes
  • ¼ cup chopped fresh Italian parsley
  • ¼ cup chopped fresh basil
  • 1 small can of tomato paste
  • ¼ cup grated Parmesan cheese
  • Salt to taste

Meatballs

  • 1 lb ground beef or turkey
  • ½ lb ground Italian-style pork sausage
  • 2 tablespoons finely basil, chopped
  • 2 tablespoons finely fresh Italian parsley, chopped
  • 2 eggs
  • ¾ cup unseasoned bread crumbs
  • ¼ cup grated Parmesan cheese
  • 2 teaspoons salt
  • 2 teaspoons fresh ground black pepper
  • 1 tablespoon olive oil

Spaghetti

  • 1 to 1-1/2 lbs. dry thin spaghetti

To make the sauce, heat olive oil in 4 to 5 quart pot on medium-high heat. Sauté onions and garlic in the heated oil for about two minutes. Add carrots and cook about two more minutes. Add canned tomatoes, basil and parsley. Stir, chopping the tomatoes into smaller pieces with your stirring spoon. After about 5 minutes, add the tomato paste and stir until blended. Turn heat to low while you cook the meatballs.

To make the meatballs, place the beef, sausage, parsley, eggs, breadcrumbs, cheese, salt, and pepper in a large bowl. Mix with your hands until well blended. Pinch off a small amount and shape it into ball. Set the ball on a plate and repeat until all the meat mixture has been formed into balls.

Heat olive oil in a large skillet over high heat. Place the meatballs in the skillet one by one and brown on all sides, about 4 to 5 minutes.

Stir cheese into the sauce and add salt and pepper to taste. If you’d like, set some sauce aside for anyone who is vegetarian or prefers a meatless meal. Fold in meatballs. Simmer on low heat for 30 minutes, stirring every few minutes.

Cook the pasta while the sauce is simmering by following the directions on the package. Drain when cooked.

To serve, ladle spaghetti onto plate and add sauce. Sprinkle Parmesan cheese on top.

World Read Aloud Day—Grab a Book and a Friend and Celebrate

Conjure up a picture in your mind of someone reading and chances are that person is sitting alone with a book in a chair or on a couch. Much of the time reading is a solitary pursuit, and that can be a good thing. We read for many reasons: to be intellectually challenged, to learn something new, to laugh, to be entertained, to be transported to other worlds . . . Sometimes that reason can also be to connect with someone else. That’s where reading aloud comes in. Reading aloud doesn’t have to be limited to moms and dads reading to their toddlers, preschoolers, and beginning readers. While reading aloud to young children is an important part of creating overall literacy, the pleasure of sharing the written word with someone important to you doesn’t have to age out. That means you can read aloud to your older child or teen, to your adult child or your spouse. Read aloud for the joy of sharing a story that you can then talk about.

You also don’t have to limit your reading to books. Just yesterday I read a magazine article aloud to my husband, and afterward we talked about pieces of the article we each particularly liked and what we found appealing about it. The idea is that reading aloud socializes and enriches a normally solitary pursuit. Today is World Read Aloud Day, an event created by LitWorld, a non-profit literacy organization that works to “foster resilience, hope, and joy through the power of story.” Why not settle down with someone you love, someone you like, or just someone you’d like to share a story with and spend a moment speaking words on a page out loud.

Interview with Valerie O. Patterson, Author of Operation Oleander

Valerie O. Patterson photo

Valerie O. Patterson

Yesterday, I featured a review of Operation Oleander, a book for young readers that explores complicated issues of members of the military and their families assisting civilians in war zones. Today I’m excited to feature an interview with the author, Valerie O. Patterson, who shared her thoughts about some of those issues as well as about her life as a writer. To find out more about this author and where she’s appearing next as part of her blog tour, visit the events page of her website.

Here’s a little more information about Patterson: She grew up near a military base on the Gulf Coast of Florida. She often draws inspiration for her writing from that place of her childhood. Patterson holds an MFA in Children’s Literature from Hollins University. Her first novel for teens, The Other Side of Blue, was published by Clarion/HMH in 2009.

She is a member of the Society of Children’s Book Writers and Illustrators, Mystery Writers of America, the Children’s Literature Association, and the Authors Guild. An attorney by day, she lives with her husband in Leesburg, Virginia. For more information about her life and work, visit her website: www.valerieopatterson.com.

How did you know you wanted to be a writer?

VOP: I can’t remember not enjoying reading and writing.  In elementary school I wrote poems and then stories. When I discovered Jules Verne had been a lawyer, a redhead and a writer, I knew what I wanted to do! I also wrote longer stories (I called them “novels”) in middle and high school, mostly about horses. My friend and I vowed to live on a ranch. My friend has realized that dream. I still write about it.

What do you like best about writing?

VOP: Writing helps me understand what I think about things. It helps me feel I am connecting with others and the broader world. Melanie Rae Thon, quoted in Letters to a Fiction Writer, edited by Frederick Busch, said: “In our desire to understand, in the constant movement between ourselves and others, we may find redemption.” I see the world in imagery and metaphor. I love the music of language. I also like the hope and possibility of fiction.

What do you find most challenging?

VOP: Plot! I know that sounds funny. But sometimes the overall plot and pacing elude me. I get bogged down in the details and forget about action. It’s all about moving the story forward, but sometimes I spend too much time admiring the view.

What books had an influence on you growing up?

VOP: Little Women’s Jo made me realize that I could follow my writing dream. I wore out The Golden Book of Poetry, edited by Untermeyer, until the cover cracked. I still have it on my shelves. I credit the King James Bible—not only for its spiritual guidance—but for the sheer power of its language, even when I didn’t understand all the words.

In Operation Oleander, Jess lives on a military base in Florida.  Have you lived on a military base?  If not, how did you learn about what it was like?

VOP: I didn’t live on base, but I did grow up in a Navy town. I had friends who had base access. I was able to go with them to the PX or base club.

What do think are some of the special challenges kids may face while living on a base?

VOP: A positive thing about living on base is that you have a readymade connection to everyone else living there—the military family. You share similar values about duty and honor and service. At the same time, I imagine the challenges include issues faced when living in any small town: everyone knows your business. On a military base, that’s even more the case. An infraction by a dependent may be reported to the military member’s commanding officer. Imagine having your speeding ticket as a teenager reported to your mom’s boss! In the book, Mrs. Johnson is a little bit of the nosy neighbor but she also comes through to be a “neighbor” in the truest sense.

Jess is conflicted because she wants to help the orphans in Afghanistan but she doesn’t want to put the US troops in danger. Do you feel the connection between local civilians and combat troops present many opportunities for these kinds of dilemmas?

VOP: This is a difficult question. Yes, I do believe instances occur when the mere presence of U.S. soldiers can draw resentment from some quarters within a foreign area. Extreme elements might interpret acceptance of U.S. assistance as collaboration with the enemy, and lead to what happened fictionally in Operation Oleander: an attack on an orphanage.

Trent Reedy in his award-winning novel Words in the Dust wrote about the positive impact of the U.S. presence in Afghanistan for the people there, and, in particular, the girl Zulaikha, for whom the U.S. presence meant her cleft palate was repaired and helped ensure she would live a more normal life. As Katherine Paterson put so well in her introduction to that wonderful book, “I am passionate about peace,” but when the pullout occurs, “what will happen to the women, what will happen to the girls, what will happen to Zulaikha?” So, as with most of difficult situations we face in life, there are sometimes conflicting outcomes. And we don’t often know when we are doing something what its consequences will be in the long run.

The situation you describe with members of a religious sect showing up to protest at the soldier’s burial happens in real life. What did you want to show by having Jess engage with the protestors?

VOP: At that point in the novel, Jess has suffered a great deal. Her father is injured, her best friends’ mother has been killed, and her best friend has shut her out. Jess has been criticized from within parts of the community for her charitable effort. She questions herself as well. To have antiwar protestors choose this time and place to protest the war seemed to be the final straw emotionally for Jess. It wasn’t hard to imagine a blind anger she might feel at that point. Sometimes we act out of anger because we lack the words to deal effectively with a situation. And, sometimes, “righteous anger” is an appropriate response.

Jess faces a lot of issues that would be difficult for anyone, let alone a young girl to navigate. What do you see as her strengths as faces each issue?

VOP: Jess has been instilled with values of service, duty, and honor. She has the examples of her father and other members of the military. She perseveres when she believes she is right. But she is able to question herself, her motives, to examine if there is another, better path. That requires self-awareness that some people, old or young, don’t have. They can’t put themselves in another’s shoes. At the same time, Jess is not a pushover, bowing to the surge of critics. She remains her own person. I admire that quiet strength of her character.

Is there anything else you’d like to say to readers at Mother Daughter Book Club.com?

VOP: Thank you for the opportunity to share my book with your readers.

 

Book Review and Giveaway: Operation Oleander by Valerie O. Patterson

Operation Oleander cover imageToday I’m featuring a review of Operation Oleander with a giveaway of one copy to a reader in the U.S. or Canada. Just leave a comment by midnight (PDT) Monday, March 18 for a chance to win. (Please note: the giveaway is closed. Congratulations to Kismet on winning.) Check back tomorrow when author Valerie O. Patterson shares with us information on her writing life as well as some of the issues raised in the book. Here’s my review:

Jess feels good about the school supplies she and her friends, Meriwether and Sam, have been collecting for an orphanage in Afghanistan. Her dad and Meriwether’s mom are both deployed there, and Jess feels doing something to help the orphans lets her feel close to her dad while he’s gone.

But when the troops stop off to deliver supplies one day, a bomb goes off, killing some of the orphans and Meriwether’s mom. Jess’s dad is badly injured. Suddenly the troops’ involvement in the local civilian problems doesn’t seem like such a good idea. Jess struggles with the guilt she feels at the same time she becomes more determined than ever to help the children in Afghanistan.

Operation Oleander by Valerie O. Patterson highlights issues from the war in Afghanistan in a way that kids can relate to. Jess was adopted by her parents when she was younger, so she feels particularly connected to the orphans, especially to a girl named Warda who her dad has sent photos of. The issue of whether U.S. soldiers can play a humanitarian role as well as a military one in the countries where they are deployed is interesting to consider.

Jess struggles to do the right thing, but not everyone agrees on what the right thing is. She’s also wondering how she can support Meriwether, who has just lost her mother, especially when she’s worried about her dad and his recovery. The issues Jess faces, and the way she decides to deal with them, should lead to interesting discussions in mother-daughter book clubs with girls aged 9 to 13.

The author gave me a copy of this book in exchange for my honest review.

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