Volunteer With Your Family to Give Back to Your Community

Each year National Family Volunteer Day is held on the Saturday before Thanksgiving. First organized 22 years ago by Points of Light, the day is meant to “showcase the benefits of family volunteering and provide opportunities for families to help communities create supportive environments for their children and each other.” It’s also a way to start the holiday season with giving and service.

While many volunteer opportunities are restricted to adults only, there are lots of things kids can do to be involved as well. Here are a few ideas for ways kids can contribute with their families:

  • Go along with their parents to deliver Meals on Wheels. Elderly shut-ins often love to see children come to their doors. When the girls in my daughter’s Girl Scout troop delivered meals a few years ago, some recipients insisted on giving something back to the girls as their own way of saying thanks. It was a good way to see that there are more ways to give than we may realize on the surface.
  • Collect items in their neighborhood for a cause they support. With a little effort kids can create a flyer to put on neighbors’ doors letting them know they will be coming by on a certain date to pick up donations. The cause can vary from old blankets and towels for an animal shelter, to canned food for a local food bank, to used winter clothing in good condition and new toiletries for a homeless shelter, much more.
  • Organize an event to benefit their schools. Do teachers need extra supplies to hand out to kids who don’t have them? Would a flowering tree look nice next to the playground? Kids can talk to their principals and find out what’s needed, then get a group of friends together to provide it.

For more ideas, check out these resources:

GenerationOn

Points of Light

Hands On Network

 

Book Review: My Bad Parent by Troy Osinoff

My Bad Parent cover imageMy Bad Parent: Do As I Say, Not As I Did by Troy Osinoff has to be seen to be believed. Osinoff has collected photographs of parents doing questionable things with their kids. Some seem staged to be funny, like the smiling child with the diaper over her head, while others are candid shots where the parents seem to have no clue that they are doing anything wacky to their kids.

Many photos fall into the latter category, including kids riding on motorcycles and kids with guns. Osinoff has grouped the photos into chapter-like categories and added comments. Some you’ll find down right funny, while others will have you shaking your head and calling for a child license to be issued before anyone can get pregnant.

My Bad Parent is a great book to leave out as a conversation starter at your next party or as a gift to expecting parents. For more fun you can visit Osinoff’s website, My Bad Parent.com.

The publisher provided me with a copy of this book in exchange for my honest review.

Book Review: The Armpit of Doom by Kenn Nesbitt, illustrations by Rafael Domingos

The Armpit of Doom cover imageKenn Nesbitt knows how to make kids laugh while getting them to read poetry. His newest collection, called The Armpit of Doom: Funny Poems for Kids, continues that tradition with 70 new poems.

Featuring illustrations by Rafael Domingos, The Armpit of Doom is titled after the opening poem about a girl who walks into her brother’s bedroom and encounters a smelly surprise. Other poems are about kids who eat paste, don’t want to go to bed and even write their own poems. Here’s an excerpt from that one, called “I Wrote an Awful Poem.”

“I wrote an awful poem;

it was bad in the extreme.

I showed it to my sister

and it made my sister scream.

I never knew a poem could be

such amazing fun.

But that was just a blast,

I think I’ll write another one.”

Some poems made me chuckle, others made me laugh out loud. I expect it will be a hit with kids who like taking an irreverent look at the world around them. And if you read The Armpit of Doom with your kids, it could inspire you both to take a stab at writing your own funny poems.

The author provided me with a copy of this book in exchange for my honest review.

Book Review and Giveaway: Dear Teen Me, edited by E. Kristin Anderson and Miranda Kenneally

Dear Teen Me cover imageWhen you’re in high school, it’s easy to think that you and your friends are the only ones who have challenges and everyone else has it good. It’s also easy to think of adults you admire as falling into the category of kids who had it good in high school. After all, if they have grown up to become successful, they must have known what they were doing all along, right?

Not so, according to the writers featured in a new anthology called Dear Teen Me: Authors Write Letters to Their Teen Selves. Edited by E. Kristin Anderson and Miranda Kenneally, Dear Teen Me features letters from 70 young adult authors, included Lauren Oliver, Ellen Hopkins, Joseph Brushac and Leila Sales.

Many of the authors included in the collection wrote letters to their younger selves, hoping to encourage them to get through some hard days ahead. There are also a few illustrated letters and general Q and A’s, with questions such as “Who was your celebrity crush,” and “What was your most embarrassing moment?”

Each author writes with candor, some about issues you may not expect, such as cutting, contemplating suicide, dealing with eating disorders and sexual orientation. There are also stories of authors who were shy, had unrequited crushes, experienced problems with family members, felt insecure, and more. Every story offers an insight not only about the author, but about the common experience that many teens face on the way to find out about and becoming their true selves.

Dear Teen Me is a word of encouragement to any teen who may be experiencing difficult times and believes she is the only one going through problems like hers. It is also a great way to get insight about authors who write for teens. Each letter is accompanied by a short bio that includes books the author has written, so it can also be a great place to find new titles to read.

Learn more about the contributors, and get a link to each author’s website, by checking out the Dear Teen Me website, where you can also find a few great trailers. And don’t forget to leave a comment below with either a short note to your own teen self or why you’re looking forward to reading Dear Teen Me so you can be entered into the giveaway. I’m giving away one copy signed by four or five of the authors to a reader in the U.S. or Canada. Please comment by midnight (PST), on Monday, November 19, 2012 to enter. Please note: the giveaway is closed. Congratulations to Diane on winning.

Publisher Zestbooks provided me with a copy of this book in exchange for my honest review.

Book Review: Keeping Safe the Stars by Sheila O’Connor

Keeping Safe the Stars cover imageSince their mother died, the Star children have lived with their grandpa, Old Finn. The family keeps to itself on the family farm Old Finn refers to as Eden in rural Minnesota. But when Old Finn develops an infection that sends him to the hospital in Duluth, 13-year-old Pride is left in charge of the farm and her siblings, 9-year-old Nightingale and 6-year-old Baby.

But even a self-sufficient teenager can’t run a household with no money and no transportation. When the kids start to attract attention from neighbors and concerned adults, they know they must find a way to reach Old Finn and find someone who can be in charge to keep them safe before the state takes them into custody.

Keeping Safe the Stars by Sheila O’Connor shows that even smart, capable kids are vulnerable when the adults they depend on experience unexpected illness or injury. After suffering the tragedy of his daughter’s early death and fighting to gain custody of the children, Old Finn is understandably reluctant to invite other people into their circle.

Yet one adult in charge is a thin thread to keep a family together, as everyone discovers when Old Finn goes away too. It takes ingenuity from all three children, help from neighbors and others in the community, as well as a bit of kindness from strangers to find a solution. Reading about the Stars and their situation is certain to provoke thoughtful discussion of the safety net parents can put into place to care for their own children in the event of the unexpected.

Keeping Safe the Stars is a compelling story that will stay with you long after you finish the last page.

The author provided me with a copy of this book in exchange for my honest opinion in this review.

 

Book Review: Ganesha’s Sweet Tooth by Sanjay Patel and Emily Haynes

Ganesha's Sweet Tooth cover imageGanesha is a Hindu god who can’t get enough sweets. His love of candy leads to tragedy when he breaks a tusk on a jawbreaker. Ganesha despairs about his strange looks until the poet Vyasa finds a purpose for the broken tusk: writing down the long story of the Mahabharata.

Ganesha’s Sweet Tooth, which was written by Emily Haynes and illustrated by Sanjay Patel, is an explosion of color and images that will keep your kids searching the drawings for subtle clues to the story as they turn the pages.

Patel is an animator for Pixar Animation Studios, and has worked on films such as A Bug’s Life, Toy Story 2 and Ratatouille. His illustrations of fun-loving Ganesha as a child who loves sweets, will surely strike a chord with youngsters who like to eat sweets too. While the story of Ganesha and Vyasa is a classic tale from India, here it’s reimagined with a young Ganesha who has a friend, Mr. Mouse.

Ganesha’s Sweet Tooth is so much fun you’ll want to read it again and again. A pronunciation guide in the back helps with a few unfamiliar words. I recommend it for ages 4 and up.

The publisher provided me with a copy of this book in exchange for my honest review.

Book Review: Eliza’s Journal by Caelyn AB Williams, Illustrated by Kati Green

Eliza's Journal cover imageWhen Eliza leaves California for Washington state’s San Juan Islands for the summer, she’s not sure what to expect. Her parents are working in Florida, and her aunt and uncle live on Orcas Island, a beautiful place that Eliza takes to right away.

Her dreams of a lazy summer among the fir trees vanishes when her uncle insists she find a job. She ends up working for the eccentric Mr. Tanner, who puts her drawing skills to use illustrating the fossils and other natural history items he owns.

Although Liza thinks there is something strange going on at Mr. Tanner’s house, at first she ignores it because she likes being around his grandson, Charlie. But as weird happenings multiply, she sets out to solve the mystery of what the Tanners are actually up to. What she discovers is something wholly unexpected.

Eliza’s Journal, written by Caelyn AB Williams and illustrated by Kati Green is part romance, part mystery and part travel promotion for the San Juan Islands. As the name implies, it’s written as though Eliza is making entries in her journal, so we see the story unfold as she recaps her days. Illustrations go along with the entries.

As she draws, Eliza also learns about the specimens she is given, and a handy guide at the font of the book helps readers keep the geologic timeline straight.

While I was bothered by Eliza’s seeming lack of a relationship with her parents (who don’t take her along for the summer and apparently don’t even call to check in on her), I was happy to read along as Eliza explored the island and worked to solve the mystery. Eliza’s Journal also made me want to plan a summer vacation on Orcas Island, which is almost like another character in the story.

The publisher provided me with a copy of this book to review.

Interview with Shana Burg: Author of Laugh with the Moon

Author Shana Burg with villagers in Malawi photo

Author Shana Burg with villagers in Malawi

Yesterday I reviewed a new book by Shana Burg called Laugh with the Moon. Burg has also won awards for a previous book, A Thousand Never Evers, which looks at the civil rights movement in the U.S. Today, I’m featuring an interview with the author.

Why did you decide to become a writer?

SB: I was in fourth grade and my teacher assigned us to create an original book of poems. As soon as I started working on mine, I was hooked! The next year, I had the same teacher and she let me start a classroom newspaper called The Razzling Dazzling Room Review. I’ve been writing ever since. (Here’s a photo of one of Shana’s early poems.)

What do you like most about writing books for children?

SB: My husband says that I’m a tween stuck in a grown-up body. I think that he may be right. While I can’t remember what I ate for dinner last night, I seem to remember my tween years in Technicolor. That’s probably why I ended up teaching sixth grade, and why I’ve had many jobs working with kids of all ages. What I like most about writing books for young readers is that they are usually more open to new ideas and adventures than adults—no offense, adults!

What do you think is the most challenging aspect of writing?

SB: The hardest thing about writing is moving what’s in my mind to the blank page. I discovered this flaw of mine the first time I met with my editor, the amazing Michelle Poploff. During this meeting at Random House in New York, Michelle asked me lots of questions about my first book, A Thousand Never Evers. It was still a manuscript at that point. She said, “Why does Addie Ann do this? How does the garden get ruined?” And I said, “Oh, I explained that in the story. You must have missed it. That’s on page…page oops! Guess I didn’t explain it after all, he he.” I was so familiar with the characters and story in my imagination that it was hard to be sure that everything in my mind actually wound up on the page.

I understand you spent some time at schools in Africa. What about that experience stayed with you and prompted a book that takes place in Malawi?

SB: I was truly flabbergasted by how the students and teachers I visited in Malawi were able to accomplish so much with so few resources. I mean, literally, I saw roofs that had blown off of classrooms in the rain, classes of 200 standard one (first year) students and only one teacher, and teachers who couldn’t find a single piece of paper to write on. Can you imagine! Still, these teachers and students had devised creative ways to learn. I wrote about many of these innovative methods in Laugh with the Moon.

Poem written by young Shana Burg

Clare sees that what may be a small amount of money to her is huge for the villagers she lives among. Yet she knows she can’t just give money to help when problems arise. Why is that?

SB: Giving money is a short-term, band-aid solution. While it may help someone in need, it won’t necessarily provide a long-term fix. Let me give you an example. When I was in Malawi in 1997, I visited a warehouse that stored books that had been donated by people who lived in wealthy nations like the U.S. and Australia. The problem was that those books had been sitting in the warehouse for years and years! The books were just sitting there when, say, fifty miles away the students had no books at all.

Why did that happen? Well, the Government of Malawi had very few trucks to use to distribute the books to the schools, and the drivers of the trucks didn’t have money for fuel. And even if they had money for fuel, all of the schools that needed books weren’t on the maps so the drivers wouldn’t know how to reach them.

This taught me that people who want to help always should do research to make sure that their donations are going to address the problem. In this case, the people who sent books probably should have investigated whether there was a proven way for them to reach the children who needed the books in a timely fashion.

Clare wonders how her friend Memory can go on with life when so many sad things have come her way. What do you think contributes to Memory’s resiliency?

SB: What a great question! I think Memory copes, first and foremost, because she must. Her little brother is relying on her, and her grandmother is too. Someone has to fetch the water, sweep the hut, cook the food.

Also, in Malawi where Memory lives, kids who have lost their parents are a dime a dozen. This fact doesn’t make the loss hurt any less, but it does provide more role models who are managing their lives with grief. And it really is true what Mrs. Bwanali tells Clare: The child that belongs to my neighbor also belongs to me. In Malawi, frequently the village comes together to raise and support children who are orphaned.

If book clubs want to help schools in Africa, are there organizations you recommend they work with?

SB: I highly recommend two organizations that work with students in Malawi, Africa:

First, World Altering Medicine provides free medical care to children who would likely die from malaria and pneumonia without their help. They also run a secondary school, where tweens and teens learn to read and write English by corresponding with pen pals. There are many ways for youth to partner with World Altering Medicine to save and improve lives halfway around the world. For more information, contact Sarah Greenberg: [email protected]. You may also be interested in viewing this video on YouTube.

I also recommend K.I.N.D.—Kids in Need of Desks, a project that raises money to build desks for school children in Malawi. Can you imagine sitting on a dusty dirty floor all day? It’s very uncomfortable and hard to learn to read and write that way. Through this program, UNICEF volunteers work with local Malawians to build desks for students right near the schools where they are needed. $24 can provide one desk; $48 will provide a desk and bench for two students; a gift of $720 will furnish an entire class of 30. Call 1-800-367-5437 to donate.

In your book A Thousand Never Evers, you wrote about the civil rights movement. Why do you think it’s important to have books for children set in that era?

SB: The civil rights movement was an incredible time for our nation because young people literally rewrote the course of history. Yes, many were too young to vote, but they were not too young to act in ways that captivated the attention of the US President and news media around the world.

Children as young as six years old marched for equal rights in Birmingham, Alabama. Tweens and teens filled the jails by the hundreds to demand an end to the Jim Crow laws that legalized treating people of color as second-class citizens. I think kids these days need to know how much power they have. They don’t need to wait to be grownups to change the world–the civil rights movement proves it.

In my opinion, you do a great job of weaving a message into a story without preaching. Do you find that difficult, especially when writing about issues that may have emotional resonance with you in some way?

SB: Thank you very much. I know that my job as an author is to follow my characters through a story. When I’m editing my work, I make sure to delete any sentences that sound preachy or where I feel I’ve abandoned the journey of my characters and stepped onto a soapbox.

Is there anything else you would like to say to readers at Mother Daughter Book Club. com?

SB: No doubt the girls who read this are thinking, creative, smart, and dynamic people. I love knowing that they are exploring the world through literature alongside their moms, who surely have experienced so much and have incredible insights to share with their daughters. When moms and daughters put their minds together, they generate a powerful force—one that can probably solve a lot of the world’s most tricky and pressing problems. So I say, keep on reading, keep on thinking, and keep on working together to change the world!

For more information visit ShanaBurg.com. You can like her at www.facebook.com/shanaburgwrites and follow her on Twitter @ShanaBurgWrites.

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