Book Review: The Heretic’s Daughter by Kathleen Kent

When hardship hits ten-year-old Sarah Carrier’s family, they move on a cold December day from their home in Billerica, Massachusetts to nearby Andover. They don’t know it, but they carry the plague with them, wrapped in the blankets her brother shivers into. The Carriers move in with Sarah’s grandmother, and they must apply to the local council for the right to stay. Everyone is afraid of the plague, but in deference to Sarah’s grandmother the family is allowed to stay—to dire consequences. When it’s clear the sickness is in their home, Sarah and her younger sister are sent to live with an aunt and uncle until the worst has passed. Months later, they return home to find their brothers, mother and father have survived, but their grandmother has not.

Sarah’s mother, Martha Carrier, is a hard woman who keeps her emotions under tight control. Sarah resents the lack of affection she feels from her mother, and she chafes against the hard life she must live for the family to survive. The Carriers are also isolated, resented by the people of Andover , who blame them for bringing the plague to town. Martha’s hard personality doesn’t soften their resentment.

When things go wrong with crops, or a neighbor’s cow sickens and dies, it’s easy for the superstitious among the Andover populace to lay the blame on Martha. Many whisper that she is a witch to be feared. When girls from the neighboring town of Salem begin to accuse their own townspeople of witchcraft, it’s not long before accusations are aimed at residents of nearby towns as well, and Martha Carrier finds herself accused.

As Sarah slowly watches each of her family members arrested on accusations of witchcraft, she knows the day will come when she has to follow her mother’s instructions to save whoever of the family she can, betraying her mother so the rest may survive.

The Heretic’s Daughter by Kathleen Kent does a masterful job of capturing the mood of the times leading up to and during the Salem Witch Trials. The story of the trials may seem like familiar literary territory, but the author finds a way to make the story fresh as she tells the story of Martha Carrier, one of the many women and men hanged as witches in Salem in 1692.

Carrier was Kent’s ancestor, and Kent grew up hearing family stories of the witch trials as well as Carrier’s place in them. In addition, she conducted extensive research of her own, rooting out official records from the time and finding out details to place the witch hysteria in historic context. She does an excellent job of weaving in details about fears of Indian raids, the plague and harsh winters. It’s hard for us to imagine the hysteria that not only allowed belief in the false claims of girls who claimed that hundreds of citizens roamed the countryside enchanting the people, but also condemned people to die for those claims. The Heretic’s Daughter can prompt discussions of how mass hysteria can take hold of a population, relationships between mothers and daughters, maintaining integrity when faced with hardship. Highly recommended for mother-daughter book clubs with girls aged 14 and up.

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Book Review: The Threadbare Heart by Jennie Nash

In The Threadbare Heart, Jennie Nash has written a story of love, loss, family and the many forms each of those can take. There’s love for a lifetime, love to help you heal, parental love, and love found when and where it’s least expected. Loss comes from death, withdrawal of affection, and unmet expectations.

Running through the core of the story is the relationship between Lily and her mother, Eleanor. They are totally opposite in many ways: Lily has had a lifelong love, and Eleanor never felt a strong enough connection with anyone to form a permanent attachment. Lily loves to sew, and she collects fabric to make clothes and quilts for the ones she loved. Embarrassed by her own mother’s homemade clothes, Eleanor doesn’t understand Lily’s lack of desire for designer clothing.

When Lily and Eleanor are forced by tragedy to take on a bigger role in each other’s lives, they struggle to bridge their differences and learn to respect each other for the unique talents they each have. The Threadbare Heart is told from multiple perspectives, including Lily’s husband, Tom, and their sons and daughter in law. This helps the reader see all sides to the story. It’s a reminder that most situations don’t feature good guys and bad guys, just people with different ideas of how they want to live their lives.

In some ways I felt the ending to The Threadbare Heart was abrupt—I could have easily followed Lily and Eleanor’s story for many more chapters—but when I finished it I found myself wondering what would happen next in each of the character’s lives. I worried for them, and I hoped for their futures. I expect the issues brought up in the book will stay with me for a long time.

While older teens may appreciate reading The Threadbare Heart, I believe it’s a better read for adult mothers and their adult daughters. It should open interesting lines of conversation between them about their own relationships. You can still be entered to win copies of this book for your book club by commenting on your favorite fictional mother-daughter pair. (See earlier post.) Comments made before Friday, May 6 at midnight (PDT), will be eligible.

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Book Review: The Girls from Ames by Jeffrey Zaslow

The Girls from Ames follows the 40-year friendship of 11 women from Ames, Iowa. Though they are now living in places all over the country, these women have continued to nurture the friendship they built in their school days. They have been available to support each other during the high points of their lives as well as when they faced personal crises.

While I was not always interested in the details of these women’s lives—after all how many of us can say that what we liked in high school would be fascinating for others to read about—I was struck by the value their friendship has brought them in so many ways.

The topics of friendship, family, personal response to tragedy and having a place to call home are prominent throughout The Girls from Ames. Stories are told about the girls and women as individuals, and to illustrate the role they each play as a member of the group.

When I started reading the story, I worked hard to keep track of each woman and her circumstances, but I soon came to feel that each person’s importance is more as a representation of the kind of person she is than as an individual in this specific group. Often, things they said or did reminded me of people I know in my own life.

In the end I felt The Girls from Ames by Jeffrey Zaslow provides a way for us to reflect on and talk about the value of long-time friendship in our lives. I believe it should prompt discussions within a mother-daughter book clubs with girls aged 16 and up about their own relationships.

Book Review: Resistance, Book 1 by Carla Jablonski and Leland Purvis

Paul and Marie Tessier live in a small village in southern France during World War II. While not officially occupied by Germany, Germans are all around them. They worry for their Jewish friend Henri. Then Henri’s parents go missing while he is away from home, and Paul and Marie find themselves hiding their friend while becoming a small part of the French Resistance.

Resistance, Book 1 by Carla Jablonski and Leland Purvis is the first in a series of three graphic novels for young adults. It does an excellent job portraying the confusion, fear and uncertainty that were all part of everyday life at the time. Even young children saw friends turn on each other, and they had a hard time knowing who they could confide in. Members of the Resistance took great risks upon themselves and their families to do what they considered to be right. Strict secrecy meant sometimes even family members didn’t know they were each involved.

So many books about World War II are written for adults; Resistance, Book 1 should be a great book to introduce this historical event to young adults. The images enrich the story beautifully and help keep the action moving along. The author’s note at the back gives a brief description of the Resistance in France that should help fuel discussions. Issues include looking at war-time realities, deciding how much you are willing to risk to help your friends, and determining what you will do to resist something you consider wrong. I highly recommend it for mother-daughter book clubs with girls aged 13 and up.

Interview with Jo Maeder, Author of When I Married My Mother

Jo Maeder is the author of a memoir about the time she spent caring for her aging mother. It’s called When I Married My Mother: A Daughter’s Search for What Really Matters—and How She Found It Caring for Mama Jo. I recently read and reviewed When I Married My Mother, and I’ve been recommending it to everyone I know since. I really think lots of women will find Maeder’s story inspiring, and I asked if she could answer a few questions for readers at Mother Daughter Book Club.com. Here’s the interview.

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Joe Maeder with Mama Jo

You faced a lot of challenges in getting everything set up to take care of Mama Jo. What was one of the biggest?

JM: Looking back, the hardest part was dealing with my mother’s decline long distance and trying to figure out what to do. My mother was also a hoarder who refused to throw out one thing, let a stranger in to help, or relocate. She was in Richmond, VA, I was in the New York City area, and my brother was 4 hours from Mama Jo in Greensboro, NC. We relied on her neighbor and best friend a lot but there’s only so much they could do, or we could ask them to do. In the book I talk about how I convinced her to give me Power of Attorney and the ordeal of getting her moved to Greensboro—where I also moved. I called it Operation Mama Jo because it felt like a military maneuver. It took a Herculean effort by many to accomplish our mission. But it was so worth it!

Moving from a Manhattan lifestyle to a life in small town North Carolina must have been a huge change for you. What do you miss most about your old city life? What was a pleasant surprise about your new town?

JM: There’s so much I don’t miss about New York: the high cost of living, the swearing, the horrible winters, the ordeal of just parking your car. What I do miss are my friends and the socializing, and the unmistakable energy of the northeast in general and the city in particular. What surprised me the most about living in the South was how charmed I was by the people I met everywhere I went. There’s definitely an “Andy of Mayberry” undertone but there’s also a sophisticated vibrancy I didn’t expect.

How was your perception of what life would be like taking care of your mother different from the reality?

JM: It was completely different. She became the sweetest, funniest person and I smoothed out a lot of my rough edges, too. The things I thought would be a problem, like her hoarding, her anger, her inability to get anywhere on time, were not issues at all. Problems I never dreamed would come up—snakes, the giant jumping wolf spider, bats, septic coming up in the front yard—were the stressors.

There must have been many days you wondered whether changing your life to care for your mother was worth it. How did you get through those?

JM: I never doubted it. After three years, though, I did begin to wonder if I would still feel that way if she lived another ten years. It was extraordinarily fulfilling but all-consuming, too. Now I wish she had lived longer. I miss her so much. Our time together was some of the best years of my life. And we had pretty much gone our separate ways when I was 14. That was probably why it was so good. We had a lot of catching up to do.

Do you have any advice for others who are considering caring for an elderly parent?

JM: I know most people can’t do what I did – leave their present lives and move somewhere else to care for a parent while working from home. What’s important is that resentment doesn’t fester. If you can’t handle it, don’t feel guilty about it. You’ll have to make hard choices. You’re not alone. I have some specific eldercare tips on my site at: http://www.jomaeder.com/links/elderly

Is there anything else you would like to say to readers at Mother Daughter Book Club.com?

JM: One thing that became clear to me is that even if you have plenty of money in your old age to hire caregivers (which my mother did not), you still need someone you can trust to manage everything from doctor appointments to hair cuts to helping you stay in touch with your friends. All you can do is show kindness and compassion throughout your life and pray that it will come back to you.

The other point I’d like to make is how deeply I regret not getting over my Mother Issues a lot sooner. I know we both had to surrender to get to this wonderful place where we could love each other and enjoy each other’s company, but I still wish it hadn’t taken so long. I hope any Mother/Daughters reading When I Married My Mother will find that it opens up a dialog between them that perhaps they’ve been avoiding, from misunderstandings to the practical end-of-life issues. One young woman told me, “I had a great conversation with my mother after I read your book about her stuff—what she wants me to keep and what the stories are.” That made me smile. In the end, all we have are our stories. The time I had with Mama Jo gave me an amazing one.

Book Review: Foiled by Jane Yolen

Foiled

Fencing is Aliera’s life. Every day she goes to school then heads to fencing practice. She even fences on weekends when she’s not visiting her disabled cousin. Fencing makes her feel strong, and she’s good at it. She takes her fencing teacher’s lessons seriously, particularly the one that says to guard her heart. That’s why she resists when cute, popular Avery starts to show an interest in her. But since he’s her lab partner in school she can’t avoid him forever.

Foiled by Jane Yolen is cleverly put together to correspond to action in a fencing match. Each of the fencing moves has a corresponding part of the story to go with it. Mike Cavallaro does an excellent job of illustrating both Aliera’s gray colorblind world and the color she sees later, when the story takes a twist.

The story touches on lots of middle-school-aged worries, such as popularity, kissing for the first time, and dating. Be aware though: near the end of the novel it morphs from this storyline into a fantasy graphic novel. The tone changes then from using fencing as a metaphor for life relationships into actually using fencing skills for protection. It’s easy to see when this happens, as the drawings turn to color, but the switch may be confusing to some.

It seems as though this is the first in a series for the new storyline, and it could be fun to follow it along as the story continues to play out. Aliera is a strong female character who is not afraid to show her strength. Recommended for readers aged 9 to 12.

Books to Help You Love the Earth

Today is Earth Day, and to help celebrate I’m offering up a list of books with an earth-friendly story for mother-daughter book clubs and other readers.

Operation Redwood by S. Terrell French—Julian is staying with his aunt and uncle in San Francisco when he discovers a plan to cut down a redwood forest. He teams up with Robin, Danny and Ariel to help save the trees. Ages 9 to 12.

Fern Verdant and the Silver Rose by Diana Leszczynski—Fern discovers she has a special gift that allows her to speak to plants. She must use her newfound ability to help her mother, who is being held by an evil man who wants to manipulate this gift to his own purposes. Ages 9 to 12.

The Hermit Thrush Sings by Susan Butler—Leora lives in the future after a meteor crashing to Earth changed life as we know it. People are forbidden to leave the village, told by their leaders that Birmbas will kill them. When Leora frees a baby Birmba trapped in her basement, she embarks on a journey to set it free and discovers the truth about her world. Ages 9 to 12.

Girlwood by Claire Dean—Searching for her runaway sister, Polly finds a magical place in the woods she calls Girlwood. When a local developer wants to raze the trees and put up housing in this spot, Polly feels she must save it to also save her sister. Ages 13 and up.

Hoot by Carl Hiaasen—Roy is a new kid at a new middle school with new bullies when he sees a boy running outside his bus one day. His curiosity about the boy leads him to make new friends and help save an endangered species. Ages 10 to 13.

Tangerine by Edward Bloor—Paul is legally blind and overshadowed by his football-hero brother. When his family moves to Tangerine County, Florida, Paul rejects his upscale school for one with a poor reputation so he can play soccer. As he discovers more about the accident that blinded him, he turns his town and his family upside down. Ages 10 to 13.

The Secret Garden by Frances Hodgson Burnett—Mary is an orphan left mostly to fend for herself in her uncle’s castle. When she discovers her crippled cousin, Colin, she finds a way to bring life back to a hidden garden and the family that has taken her in. Ages 9 to 13.

Torched by April Henry—Ellie finds herself infiltrating a radical Earth-rights group for the FBI so her parents can get leniency on a marijuana charge. As she gets closer to members of the group, she becomes conflicted over supporting the group and its goals or turning them in. Ages 14 and up.

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