Girl Up: Mobilizing Young Women to Improve the Lives of Girls All Over the World

I recently read an article in Time magazine about Girl Up (girlup.org), an organization that “aims to mobilize 100,000 American girls to raise money and awareness to fight poverty, sexual violence and child marriage. In the article, writer Nancy Gibbs talks about how educating girls can have such a huge impact on societies all over the world. Here are some of the statistics she quotes:

  • An extra year of primary school boosts girls’ eventual wages by 10 percent to 25 percent
  • Girls who stay in school for seven or more years typically marry four years later and have two fewer children than girls who dropp out.
  • When girls and women earn income, they reinvest 90 percent of it in their families.
  • Less than 2 cents of every development dollar goes to girls.

Girl Up is a campaign of the United Nations Foundation, and its website has great information about what they do and how you may be able to get involved. I encourage you to check out the site; you may even be inspired to get your mother-daughter book club involved in a project that may benefit girls around the world.

Book Review: How I Stole Johnny Depp’s Alien Girlfriend by Gary Ghislain

How I Stole Johnny Depp's Alien Girlfriend cover imageDavid’s dad is a therapist who lives in the small French town of Cornouaille. David knows not to get to close to the patients, but Zelda fascinates him. She claims to be from another planet, and she’s here on earth to find her chosen one. To her it makes no difference that in the process of searching she needed to steal food, and when she was caught she sent to security guards to the hospital.

At first David thinks Zelda is as crazy as his dad’s other patients, but as he gets to know Zelda better, he begins to believe her bizarre story. And he finds himself inexplicably drawn to staying with her no matter what sorts of mayhem she creates during her quest.

How I Stole Johnny Depp’s Alien Girlfriend by Gary Ghislain is funny, and thoughtful. After hearing the name I was skeptical as to whether I would like it, but David’s voice won me over on the first pages. At 14, he’s self-conscious of his small build, interested in girls but sure they wouldn’t be interested in him, and curious. He’s never rebelled against his parents before, so he surprised that he feels so compelled to break their rules over Zelda.

David and Zelda break a lot of rules as they blaze their way for Cornouaille to Paris, where his ice-queen mother lives, to St. Tropez. It’s a wild ride that will keep you turning pages, questioning whether aliens really do live among us, and cheering for David along the way. I recommend it for readers, including boys, aged 14 and up.

Publisher Chronicle Books provided me with a copy of this book to review.

 

Book Review: Zitface by Emily Howse

Zitface cover imageOlivia likes being in commercials; she’s saving the money she gets paid in a fund for college, and she hopes the ads may be a springboard to more serious acting later. So she’s thrilled when she gets hired to be the daughter in a new ad campaign for Wacky Water…that is until her face breaks out with acne for the first time ever. Soon Olivia is seeing a dermatologist and taking medication, and her life is full of stress. She’s worried that her new boyfriend, J.W., won’t like her if she’s broken out, that she’ll be fired from the ad campaign, and that her single mom doesn’t have much time to be with her any more.

Zitface by Emily Howse takes a look at several big issues for teens: the desire to look perfect, the fear of rejection by your friends and others if you don’t, getting acne, having a first boyfriend, and dealing with recently divorced parents (one of whom is starting to date again). It’s a lot to tackle in a novel, but Howse does a nice job of taking the reader into Olivia’s world. She’s cute and well liked, but she’s still vulnerable to rejection when her body starts to change. Her friends are changing too, and Olivia isn’t sure she likes the way they act anymore. In the end, she has to decide what’s really important to her, and let go of what’s not. Mother-daughter book clubs with girls aged 11 to 14 should find lots to talk about.

Author Emily Howse provided me with a copy of this book to review.

Interview with Amy Fellner Dominy, Author of OyMG

Amy Dominy photoHow did you decide to become a writer?

AD: I always loved to write, even as a kid, but I was too practical to pursue it seriously. As it turned out, I discovered advertising as a business student and worked for many years as a copywriter, creating ads and commercials-who knew I could write AND make a living? But I continued to write stories and finally, about 10 years ago, I went back to get my MFA in playwriting. From there, it was another step to writing books, and here I am!

What do you like about writing for teens?

AD: For starters, I can’t think of another age so full of drama, emotion and huge, life-defining changes. That was the time in my life when I struggled to figure out who I wanted to be-and where I’d fit in. Those are still the questions I find so compelling and want to write about. Also, if you ask me which books impacted me the most, they were the ones I read as a tween and teen. I can’t imagine writing for any other audience.

Ellie’s sense of humor plays a big role in OyMG. Do you find it easy to write humorously?

AD: I’ve never thought of myself as a funny writer and when I try to be funny, it’s painful (and painfully bad!) For me, the humor has to come naturally from the characters-from their personalities. With a character like Zeydeh, it was easy to let loose with the humor.

How do you think humor affects a story with heavy topics?

AD: Hopefully, humor makes a story more accessible and draws teens into reading about something they might not be comfortable reading otherwise. Also, life is usually a mix of good and bad and even in difficult times, I’ve found that laughter can provide a release, and a relief. It can also create a connection between people. I would like to think it can do those same things in a story.

Ellie loves a good debate, and I loved reading in OyMG about how she prepares for her arguments. Were you part of a debate team at school?

AD: I never got involved with speech when I was a teen-I’m kicking myself about that now! To research this book, I followed a local high school speech team at a tournament and got hooked! The kids were amazing-so smart and sharp. I especially loved the Impromptu event-which was why I had to include a scene of that in OyMG.

Ellie hasn’t really considered the fact that’s she’s Jewish an issue until she’s asked to says she’s Christian instead. Do you think it’s important for young people to question why they believe the things they do? If so, why?

AD: I think when we’re little, most of us accept what we’re taught as the truth. But when we get older, or find ourselves among people who think differently, it’s natural for questions to arise. That’s what happens to Ellie in the book. For the first time, she finds herself challenged about her religion. It’s not enough to accept what she’s been told-she has to decide what’s in her heart. Though it can be difficult, I do think questions are good-even for kids. It leads to discussion and a broader way of thinking-and hopefully can help us develop a better understanding of ourselves.

Stereotypes about people are easy to make. Why do you think it’s important to resist them?

AD: When we stereotype someone, it’s easy to lose sight of their individuality-to stop thinking of them as a person. From there, it can easily lead to prejudice and distrust, then dislike and hatred. Before you know it, humanity forgets to act in a humane way-sadly, our history is full of examples of this happening. And it all can start from something as simple as a stereotype. I think that’s why it’s especially important to resist them.

As there anything else you’d like to say to readers at Mother Daughter Book Club. com?

AD: If any groups do choose to read OyMG, I’d be happy to send autographed bookmarks and a Reader’s Guide. For groups who purchase 5 books or more, I’ll also send OyMG magnetic poetry! Interested in a Skype chat? If timing works out, I can do a 20-minute Skype with your group. Contact me at [email protected] to arrange.
Thanks!

Book Review: OyMG by Amy Fellner Dominy

OyMG cover imageEllie’s parents say she was born debating, and there’s no denying she loves a good argument. She hopes the skills she developed in presenting her side of a case will get her a scholarship into prestigious Benedict’s school, and her ticket in may be performing well at the Christian Society Speech and Performing Arts summer camp.

Sure she’s Jewish, but that shouldn’t make a difference, right? OyMG by Amy Fellner Dominy has everything needed to be a good book to read and a good book to discuss for mother-daughter book clubs. Fourteen-year-old Ellie is funny, confident in her ability to think on her feet, but a bit insecure when it comes to boys. She loves her Zeydeh (Yiddish for grandfather), who lives just down the street and spends a lot of time at her home.

When she’s asked to lie about being Jewish, it brings up a lot of questions for her that may even bring out a debate in your own group with questions that explore values and faith. Is lying ever okay to get you something you want, when you know in your own heart you’re not representing yourself truthfully? Can you tell how someone will act based on their religion? How do you deal with family members you love who are prejudiced when you aren’t? Do children have an obligation to carry on in the traditions of their parents and grandparents?

There are no pat answers in OyMG; instead you’ll find lots of nuance to help you look at both sides of the issues—just like a good debate. I had a lot of fun reading about how debaters prepare for their arguments. The subplots of Zeydah’s soup competition and Ellie’s budding relationship with Devon also provide a few unexpected twists and turns that kept me guessing about how things were going to turn out until the very last debate. I highly recommend OyMG for groups with girls aged 12 and up.

The publisher, Walker Books for Young Readers, provided me with a copy of this book to review.

Does the Stigma of Mental Illness Still Exist? Thoughts from Madeline Sharples, Author of Leaving the Hall Light On

Madeleine Sharples photoMadeline Sharples, the author of Leaving the Hall Light On, has a guest post today about mental illness and how it’s perceived in our society today. Leaving the Hall Light On is about living after loss. It’s about finding peace and balance and various ways Sharples finds to bring herself together after feeling so helpless and out of control during her son Paul’s 7-year struggle with bipolar disease and after his suicide in September 1999.

Sharples explains: “I write about the steps I took in living with the loss of my son, including making use of diversions to help me forget. Leaving the Hall Light On is also about the milestones I met toward living a full life without him: packing and giving away his clothes, demolishing and redoing the scene of his death, cataloging and packing away all his records and books, copying all of his original music compositions onto CDs, digitizing all of our family photos, and gutting his room and turning it into my office and sanctuary with a bay window that looks out toward a lush garden and a bubbling water fountain.”

Find out more about Sharples and her book at Lucky Press and her blog. Here is her essay.

Does the Stigma of Mental Illness Still Exist?

 

My son was a young adult, age twenty-one, when he was diagnosed with bipolar disorder. And throughout the seven years he struggled with the disease, I thoroughly believe the stigma of his mental illness stopped him from a program of treatment that might have saved him from his destiny, suicide.

From the literature I’ve read, mental illness in teens is widespread. Teens typically shy away from discussing their illness because of the fear of being made fun of or bullied by their peers. That is stigma, that is what stops teens and adults from getting proper treatment.

The most important way to erase stigma is to open the conversation about mental illness. This conversation could cover several aspects:

What are the causes of mental illness? Knowing the causes will help erase stigma and enable a search for the ways to get help if needed. Mental illness is caused by a disease of the brain, actually a chemical imbalance in the brain, much like a physical disease such as asthma or mono. Physical illnesses need treatment, so do mental illnesses. Genetic factors also cause mental illness. Find out if there is any mental illness in your family, because if there is, you could be at risk. Mental illness was rampant in my family, and those genes were passed down to my son. Unfortunately we didn’t know enough to be prepared.

How do you know what mental illness actually looks like? According to an article by Hugh C. McBride, “Stigma Keeps Many Teens from Getting Mental Health Treatment,” the symptoms are:

  • Mood swings, agitation, and anxiety
  • Altered sleep patterns (excessive sleeping or insomnia)
  • Loss of focus or inability to concentrate
  • Drastic weight changes (either gains or losses)
  • Fatigue or exhaustion
  • Loss of interest in hobbies, sports, school, or other activities that previously were important to the teen
  • Decline in academic performance, frequent absences from school, and skipped classes
  • Thoughts of death, expressions of wanting to die, discussions of suicide
  • Substance abuse (including the abuse of alcohol, illicit drugs, and prescription pills)

What kinds of treatments are available? Therapy, short or long-term hospitalizations, and prescribed medications specific to the type of mental illness being treated are typical.

What are the dangers if mental illness is left untreated? These could be addiction to alcohol and/or drugs for those who are self-medicating. Suicide is also a real risk.

What are the forms of stigma? Now that it is clear that the stigma of mental illness still exists it is important to know its forms: making direct negative remarks, calling a mentally ill person crazy, portraying a mentally ill person as a sociopath or violent in films and television, or characterizing a mentally ill person as weak or stupid.

To find out more, I suggest you go to the bringchange2mind organization http://www.bringchange2mind.org founded by Glenn Close, who has a sister with bipolar disorder and a nephew with schizoaffective disorder. She says, “What mental health needs is more sunlight, more candor, more unashamed conversation about illnesses that affect not only individuals, but their families as well.” The mission of bringchage2mind is twofold:

1)    Provide people who have misconceptions about mental illness quick and easy access to information that combats stigma

2)    Provide people who have mental illness, and those who know them quick and easy access to information and support.

 

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Book Review: Dewey the Library Cat: A True Story by Vicki Myron with Bret Witter

Dewey the Library Cat cover imageA tiny kitten was left in a library return box in a small town in Iowa during the late 1980s. When found, he was almost frozen and half-starved. From such humble beginnings, that tiny kitten went on to become the library mascot and an inspiration to people all over the world. Dewey the Library Cat: A True Story, written by Vicki Myron with Bret Witter, tells the tale beginning with Dewey’s rescue and continuing on throughout his life. And what a life it was.

Like many of the people of Spencer, Iowa, I was captivated by Dewey from the start. Yes, I am a cat lover, but this story is about more than the survival of an alley cat. It’s also about a town that needed a symbol of hope and people who were encouraged to carry on in the face of hardship because they were bolstered by a small, orange feline. I felt like reading this book to my own cat and saying to her (as though I’m a lecturing parent), “Why can’t you be more like Dewey?”

Dewey will steal your heart and lift your spirits. Vicki Myron, Dewey’s mom at the library for all his life, does a great job of telling his story while weaving in bits and pieces about events going on in Spencer and beyond during Dewey’s reign. This book for readers aged 9 to 12 is adapted from a story written for adult readers. It should charm both generations in mother-daughter book clubs. I highly recommend it.

Publisher Little Brown provided me with a copy of this book to review.

Book Review: Why…Thank You! by Cat Wagman

Why…Thank You! by Cat Wagman is the perfect book to have on hand if you’ve ever been faced with the desire to write a heartfelt thank you note but couldn’t get beyond what you thought were trite expressions of gratitude.

You may be tempted to believe that written thank you notes are not necessary in this digital age at all, but there are still many occasions when the old-fashioned written missive is still the way to go. That’s where Wagman’s handy little guide shines. With tips that advise on when to write a thank you note, and how to trigger your own “Creative Catalyst,” Wagman helps you take the stress out of looking at a blank note and wondering what to write. She even has examples of thank you notes that could be written for different situations, for both children and adults.

You’ll also appreciate Wagman’s tips on keeping track of notes you need to send, and her premise that writing thank yous can be fun. This book can easily serve as your thank-you-note go-to guide for years to come.

The author provided me with a copy of this book to review.

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